How does the "expectancy effect" influence your resilience?
When you are working under pressure, if, in your mind, you are expecting that your workload will never end, or that problems will take forever to resolve, then you are weakening your body's resilience and, very likely, reducing your body's resistance to illness.
When you focus on the negative things happening around you, your body actually produces cortisol which makes you feel 'stressed' and can weaken your immune system.
Not only does being pessimistic and complaining about problems make you feel miserable, tired and unenthusiastic - it also drains the people around you! That includes your team mates, colleagues, clients and customers!
What can you do about it?
Create a 'positive expectancy' about yourself and life.
Expect that you will be able to manage, that you will be able to handle whatever life throws at you, that no matter how challenging a problem is that you will be able to deal with it.
With a 'positive expectancy' you create more energy in your body, your mind can focus for longer, and you have a positive influence on other people.
Can you remember watching a movie when you got a frightened your body jumped? Your body experienced that fright as if you were actually IN the movie.
Your body experiences whatever your mind perceives to be real.
If you focus on your hardships, then you body will become drained and 'stressed'. However, if you focus on what is possible and EXPECT that you are going to handle the situation well, then your body will become energized and empowered to make it happen.
You decide whether you will feel tense and drained or energized and empowered by the decisions you make each moment of each day.
How do I do that?
S.P.I.N. your pressure instead of becoming a P.I.T.A.
A negative expectancy is created by being:
P - Pessimistic
I - Instigating blame
T - Turning on yourself (doubt)
A - Accumulating worry
A positive expectancy is created by being:
S - Solution focused
P - Perspective on your situation
I - Internally confident
N - Never lose hope (optimistic)
You may not decide what happens to you in your day, but only you decides what happens in your head (what you think about).